No grandparent wants to find out their grandchild is being bullied. Nothing is more heartbreaking.

In these situations, it is typical for grandparents to feel powerless and deeply worried.

However, there are many things you can do to make a positive impact in this situation.

To get a deeper understanding of bullying we have put together this post.

Bullying is any form of unwanted or aggressive behavior. It mainly happens to school-aged children, but there are now reports detailing severe levels of bullying in the workplace.

What does bullying look like?

The power imbalance

Bullies tend to create a power imbalance with their behavior. This is to say that the victim feels there is little they can do to stop the unwanted behaviour, and they develop feelings of powerlessness and vulnerability.

Kids who bully use their power, such as physical strength, access to embarrassing information, or popularity to control or harm others. Sadly, this is usually a learned behaviour picked up at home or from watching television programs.

Repetition

Bullying is a behaviour which is repeated over time, or it has the potential to be repeated. One-off instances of bad behaviour is not considered bullying especially by young children.

The bully and the victim may suffer long lasting and quite serious mental problems throughout their lives if it is not addressed properly.

The actions of a bully

There are three types of bullying – verbal, social bullying, and physical bullying.

Verbal abuse where a bully says or writes mean things.

Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships they have with others. This may include splitting up friends or coming between a student and a loved teacher.

Physical bullying involves hurting someone or damaging their possessions.

Here is a list of types of bullying behaviour from Stop Bullying.

Verbal bullying includes:

Teasing

Name-calling

Inappropriate sexual comments

Taunting

Threatening to cause harm

What does bullying look like?
Bullying can take many forms

Social bullying includes:

Leaving someone out on purpose

Telling other children not to be friends with someone

Spreading rumors about someone

Embarrassing someone in public

Physical bullying includes:

Hitting/kicking/pinching

Spitting

Tripping/pushing

Taking or breaking someone’s things

Making mean or rude hand gestures

You might also be interested in our other articles –

How to talk directly to your grandchildren about bullying

Open up the lines of communication with your grandchildren to help them solve problems

Bullying: Make yourself available to listen to your grandchild

For more great tips visit Stop Bullying or talk to your grandchild’s teacher for more information about what their school is doing to combat bullying.


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